I've noticed, evidenced by the last post, that I have the capability to elevate my mood to a mania...and quickly. Being part of my personalty, I accept it, but I definitely realize its ramifications if not recognized and balanced with some type of in-the-moment analysis.
I've finished the book "the game" and did some online research. It basically breaks down to this, if you don't have the confidence in yourself, you will not be able to approach women, period. All of these strategies to seduce women, etc are based on the fact that the seducer (lonely man) now has some secret weapon that will allow him to "be interesting" around women at a given time/location. This is the placebo affect in action, if you believe you have less a chance of failure you will then take more chances. Its not the damn magic spell you cast on a women, its the confidence you gain to actually do more then stare at her as she walks by.
Knowing that I have some hesitations with approach, and would like to know more about the human psychological process in in regards to interacting with opposite sex, I will invest the next couple of weeks into doing some research and applying the skills I see necessary, but in my opinion, the best way to gain more confidence is get rejected countless times (hundreds) and lose the fear of the approach.
FYI: Considering dating classes range in the thousands of dollars (crazy, i know) do this shit yourself by working on your confidence, going to the gym, taking some speech classes, and growing a pair (easier said then done).
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